Fight for the relationship - not against it. Fight for reconciliation - not for alienation.
Fight to preserve the friendship - not to destroy it.
Fight to win your spouse - not to lose him/her. Fight to save your marriage - not to cash it in.
Fight to solve the problem - not to salve your ego.
If you're going to fight, fight to win - not to lose.
(thank you Dr. Richard C. Halverson for these words above)
So let us all think twice and to fight for the right things in life (and yes, easier said then done).